Adoption FAQs

Generally, anyone 21 or older can apply. You'll need to demonstrate stability, pass background checks (including child abuse and criminal), complete state training, and undergo a home study. You don't have to be married or own a home.
Missouri offers various paths:
- Agency adoptions (through licensed agencies)
- Independent adoptions (direct arrangements between birth and adoptive parents)
- Stepparent adoptions (adopting your spouse’s child)
- Foster care adoptions (adopting a child from the state’s foster care system)
- International adoptions (adopting a child from another country)
Steps typically include a home study, termination/consent of birth parent rights, child placement, a six-month post-placement supervision period, and a finalization hearing where a judge grants the adoption decree.
This refers to the level of post-adoption contact.
- Open (direct ongoing communication, such as letters and visits between birth and adoptive families
- Semi-open (Communication through a third party)
- Closed (no contact or identifying information shared)
Lowe Dreesen Miller helps you explore what's right for your family.
Adoption laws are complex. Our experienced attorneys help you meet all legal requirements, protect your rights, handle sensitive negotiations, prepare all necessary documents, and represent you in court for a smooth and successful finalization.